Going to the Asian country of Thailand is a treat all in itself. Thailand has something for every kind of traveler. It has breathing scenery, historic sacred temples, and for us guys: Thai bar girls.
A Thai bar girl is just waiting for men from the Western part of the world to come along. Many of them want money, but most of them want respect – something they don’t get from Thai men. Because of their reputation for getting down and dirty, many Western guys think that they can just come to Thailand, scoop up a Thai bar girl and take her home – no questions asked. And while hooking up with a Thai girl isn’t the hardest thing to do, it does require a little more effort than that.
The first thing you should do when you see a Thai bar girl that you like is to make eye contact with her. This will let her know that you are interested. Then flash a big, flirtatious grin at her. Thai girls are almost constantly smiling and they love it when you give them attention. After you all are smiling at each other, give her a chance to make her way over to where you’re at.
Don’t say anything rude or out of the way. Remember that Thai bar girls crave respect. Act reserved and polite. Offer her your business card or buy her a drink. Do not touch her. Public displays of affection are not nearly as acceptable in Thailand as they are in other countries. Keep your hands off until the two of you are alone – and trust me, if you play your cards right, you will get her alone.
Once you have let her know you’d like to get to know her better, if you have respected your boundaries in public, chances are high that she will let you take her home. There she will give you luxurious massages and cook delectable Thai food for you… among other things.